Long-distance realtionship...

Why are they so hard? No one knows... not even Mr. know-it-all, Google!!!

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aghhhh... somedays are just so hard... Not that love is ever easy so it doesn't matter how you call it or where are you from.... Bottom line is, it's damm hard work & it is not for everybody. If you are not strong, trustworthy, honest, respecfull person who is ready to comunicate to make your love real - don't go there!

For those of you who are thinking about this, from one sceptic to onother, it is worth it... Distance is just a word, just a number as long as you have someone very special on the other side. I will not lie, it will not be great all the time. There is a lot of the bumps ahead because nothing worthy of having comes easily. Be shure to expect a bad days too...

You'll experience bad days without fights but, speaking of, it is important to mention that the two of you are the relationship. Just you two, not you + all of your friends & the best way to ensure not to forget it is to keep  it to yourselves. Of course, you should talk to others in some occasions because you can always use a second opinion & outsider sometimes can bring you an objective. However, think twice who you can talk to & don't interfere others into the smallest disputes /arguments because it doesn't concerns them.

But it is not all so dark. There are a lot of "advantages" in this kind of relationships . Each of you has a lot of time for yourself, your friends & obligations so that you'll never experience that feeling of smothering, losing your freedom even if you get together for longer period of time. Other great thing is that every conversation is much more meaningful to both because  you'll never take your time together for granted & you'll cherish the simple things. But the best thing is what you'll never stop revealing something new about them & the phase of infatuation last for years...

How far is your heart?